Love Isn’t For Everyone – that’s L.I.F.E!!!

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What  is LOVE?

How can someone say that they love you yet hurt you over and over again?

Why do people throw the word LOVE around so loosely in the quest to be the dominant player?

All I  have are questions cause I sure don’t have answers. I don’t understand how someone can look you in your eye and “sincerely” say: “Baby i love you”. The fact that such words are uttered should mean that when you are down, said person should be there to lift you up. When you are hurting, said person should provide a shoulder for you to lean on. When you make a mistake and you are lost, said person should hold your hand and guide you home.

  

How do u say that you LOVE and viciously hurt someone over and over? Is that really love or the game? Mi confused. Of all my years on earth and all of my relationships, if i do say i love, i try to build my partner and not break him. I have made my mistakes but i try to rectify the wrongs and work on the relationship. It puzzles me when my girlfriends come to me and say that their partner repeatedly does things that he knows hurts them but still comes around and says: “baby forgive me because i love you”.

“Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day.” – Nicholas Sparks

I guess I will never understand the minds of those in love and I guess the concept of love eludes me.

Sigh!

“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.” – Sophocles

The above statement is very ironic as LOVE has caused many a heartache and many sleepless nights. Love has driven many a man and woman to the bottle or to cigarettes.

Baby mi love you but mi a go try get yuh friend.

  

Baby mi love you but mi a go box you over if you come in later than expected.

Baby mi love you but mi nah go be there for you when you need me.

Baby mi love you but mi a go walk out on you and our child.

Mi really confused!

Maybe you all can enlighten my darkness and explain love to me.

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Trishy Blake
7 years ago

I can totally relate to what is being said. But personally I’ve learning to discern being infatuated and being in love. I believe in love but as time changes so does the perception of love. Love has been defiled by so many “love tricks” and the present concept isn’t apart of the plan God had. It probably would be easier to give up on love but for me giving up is way too easy

Trishaun Blake
6 years ago

I can totally relate to what is being said. But personally I’ve learning to discern being infatuated and being in love. I believe in love but as time changes so does the perception of love. Love has been defiled by so many “love tricks” and the present concept isn’t apart of the plan God had. It probably would be easier to give up on love but for me giving up is way too easy