The Ignorance of my People

So a photo of Jah Vinci, a Jamaican singer is being circulated on SOCIAL MEDIA of him kissing his daughter on her lips, and all manner of assertions are being drawn by people who have no clue, and allow SOCIETY to DICTATE to them HOW THEY SHOULD SHOW LOVE AND AFFECTION TO THEIR KIDS.

What bothers me is the hypocrisy of many of us women who never fail to call out the DEAD BEAT FATHERS, yet when one is affectionate towards his child, suddenly he becomes a pervert.

As far as I am concerned a parent’s love is UNCONDITIONAL and does not require society’s laws or dictation. These days there are so many IDIOTS who write books and thesis on how to be a good parent, yet half of those people need to be ADMITTED and CERTIFIED because in all honesty,THEY HAVE NO CLUE.

  
anything wrong with Jah Vinvci kissing daughter on lips picture
Jah Vinci kissing daughter – Image Source: rocyoufm.blogspot.com

Society has become so wrapped up in what others think, that if you hold your children too tight, you are being accused of being ABUSIVE. The sad reality as a result of this MADNESS is that many parents are now afraid to even show their kids love and affection less they be deemed PERVERTS by those with no clue.

My mother once told me, that no matter what age I was, I was always going to be her child, much to the point that there were times even as an adult when I needed the solace and comfort of my mother, that I would find myself in her bed, where I felt safe and protected.

God forbid that anyone would even dare to suggest anything else and let me hear about it, as I would most certainly let that person feel the wrath of my left hand.
I can guarantee if half of the kids being medicated these days for ADD and God knows what else were getting LOVE and AFFECTION form their parents, they would not have any issues. But as always SOCIETY is making fools of many of us and we buy and feed into it.

There is NO BOOK or PERSON that has the MONOPOLY on how to be a GOOD PARENT. That is something that comes from within, so one can read all the books on parenting, if the basic instinct to LOVE and CHERISH your offspring is not there, it makes no sense.

Gone are the days when parents were allowed to simply LOVE their kids and not worry about what anyone had to say. Now parents have to look over their shoulders, lest the word PERVERT be thrown at them.

The Picture of JAH VINCI kissing his young daughter, is a picture that shows the love of a FATHER, nothing else, and anyone who chooses to see anything other than that, needs to see a THERAPIST as clearly they have ISSUES.

Parents LOVE your kids, and do not allow society to tell you how much you can or cannot love them.

  

Life is short. The best memories of any child are those of the LOVE, COMFORT, and LAUGHTER they were able to share whit their PARENT/PARENTS.

I did not grow up with my dad, and we were more FRIENDS than we were father and daughter. PRIDE would not allow me to EMBRACE him as a DAUGHTER should, and he is no longer here for me to do that, and I have lots of REGRETS.

LIFE IS SHORT,and we need to make every minute count.

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Winston Gordon
5 years ago

Men kiss u daughter .and them pervert go do something with them mother.gezz kiss my everyday or the kiss me 4 of them nuff kisses

Winston Gordon
5 years ago

Men kiss u daughter .and them pervert go do something with them mother.gezz kiss my everyday or the kiss me 4 of them nuff kisses

Aaron Cummings
5 years ago

Why is there even an article on this. That could be a pic of me thats how I kiss my girls ( 3 and 12) all the time and tell them I love them. Those who choose to cast aspersions should go ride the donkey cart on Mandela Highway and hopefullu fall off and hit their head to bring them to reality.

Aaron Cummings
5 years ago

Why is there even an article on this. That could be a pic of me thats how I kiss my girls ( 3 and 12) all the time and tell them I love them. Those who choose to cast aspersions should go ride the donkey cart on Mandela Highway and hopefullu fall off and hit their head to bring them to reality.

Tamara Williams
5 years ago

Great dad continue to show ur affection if more dads were doing this kids wouldnt have to go elsewhere searching for love

Tamara Williams
5 years ago

Great dad continue to show ur affection if more dads were doing this kids wouldnt have to go elsewhere searching for love

Jamaican Divas
5 years ago

Great article, society have us living in fear of how we raise our kids.

Tanisha Officalgirl Nesbeth

If this is your way of showing love to your child then do It now and do It again. I love a man who stands up for his kids. Society is so narrow minded.

Autumn Sky
5 years ago

Why is this even an issue? I just don’t get it!!

Alexandra Burke
5 years ago

Well said!!! Nothing is more admirable than to see a father bestowing pure agape love upon his children, especially his daughters. when girls experience that pure love from their dad, they will know what the wrong one feels like when perverts try to manipulate and use them. I say to all dads who understands how to be real dad, continue to pour out upon you children especially girls true unconditional love and fatherly affection.

Machel Sinclair
5 years ago

The gall of these people to try to take something beautiful and turn it into something ugly

Doreen P Latty
5 years ago

with all that is going on in JAMAICA this is the topic we take issue with? keep on loving your daughter, it will teach her how she should be loved when she grows up big up.

Mikeford Wynter
5 years ago

It’s just a sad reality for those who have never or aren’t ggetting love and affection i have two daughters 13and10 i love them dearly when ever am around i hug and kiss them daily they’re the reason am living today…..it’s ok for those preverts to go around dating teenagers and doing all manner of evil with them and still ave an issue with a good dad showing his daughter love and affection…. ..i think people who ave an issue whit

Tarik Brown
5 years ago

As a mother thats how I kiss my daughter, what’s the difference

Winsome Lovechild
5 years ago

Great Article, excellent points, in agreement but you forgot to say SOME/ MANY parents. Honest mistake I think…lol

Jed Davis
5 years ago

I tried to leave like as many of these comments as possible. I can’t believe people would try to currupt such a beautiful thing. The nerve of some of us! It seems love cannot be shown in our society anymore without someone thinking it’s dirty. Cho!!!

Maxan Gilzene
5 years ago

That is a fathers love, continue to love your daughter, I wished I had a dad to show me love when I growing up.

Monique Housen
5 years ago

Dirty unfiltered minds thing such…………what a beautiful picture of father and daughter. Small filthy minds

Karen Taylor
5 years ago

When she becomes an adolescent, will he kiss her on the lips still? Will that be appropriate? Do men kiss their boys on the lips? Why not? Even if a father is not perverted. It’s not considered appropriate to kiss children on their lips in any society, theirs or others. It can also be unhealthy. A parent could also easily pass on oral herpes to his child by kissing her on the lips. Kiss your children on the cheek or forehead. Lips are for intimacy. Or do it where people can’t judge you for it. In private. Society has its… Read more »

Zuzz Jacque Simpson
5 years ago

My son is 18 and still give me a kiss on my lips at times and in public.. Does that make me a pervert too? Smdh

Helen Brown
5 years ago

Its amazing how peoples minds react to the most innocent things in life…….

Shanny Boo
5 years ago

I wish my dad was there for me n show affection n love….. kiss your child n embrace her,, u are a good dad… we need more good fathers in jamaica cho hell and mothers too…. u ignorant fools have too time n y’all hands….kmt

Christopher Lucas
5 years ago

I want to see who can tell me that i cant kiss my beloved Chante on her lips… my daughter makes me happy, i love her so i show it the best way i can

Herbert Mclean
5 years ago

And that is why I will continue to say that Jamaica and the world in general have no respect for the few good men around. I guess it is easier for women to accept those men who prefer to be ladies. kmt.

Ian Campbell
5 years ago

I kiss my daughter like that everyday.

Tamara Williams
5 years ago

Great dad continue to show ur affection if more dads were doing this kids wouldnt have to go elsewhere searching for love

Jamaican Divas
5 years ago

Great article, society have us living in fear of how we raise our kids.

Aaron Cummings
5 years ago

Why is there even an article on this. That could be a pic of me thats how I kiss my girls ( 3 and 12) all the time and tell them I love them. Those who choose to cast aspersions should go ride the donkey cart on Mandela Highway and hopefullu fall off and hit their head to bring them to reality.

Tanisha Officalgirl Nesbeth

If this is your way of showing love to your child then do It now and do It again. I love a man who stands up for his kids. Society is so narrow minded.

Winter Sky
5 years ago

Why is this even an issue? I just don’t get it!!

Machel Sinclair
5 years ago

The gall of these people to try to take something beautiful and turn it into something ugly

Doreen P Latty
5 years ago

with all that is going on in JAMAICA this is the topic we take issue with? keep on loving your daughter, it will teach her how she should be loved when she grows up big up.

Mikeford Wynter
5 years ago

It’s just a sad reality for those who have never or aren’t ggetting love and affection i have two daughters 13and10 i love them dearly when ever am around i hug and kiss them daily they’re the reason am living today…..it’s ok for those preverts to go around dating teenagers and doing all manner of evil with them and still ave an issue with a good dad showing his daughter love and affection…. ..i think people who ave an issue whit

Alexandra Burke
5 years ago

Well said!!! Nothing is more admirable than to see a father bestowing pure agape love upon his children, especially his daughters. when girls experience that pure love from their dad, they will know what the wrong one feels like when perverts try to manipulate and use them. I say to all dads who understands how to be real dad, continue to pour out upon you children especially girls true unconditional love and fatherly affection.

Monique Housen
5 years ago

Dirty unfiltered minds will think likewise …………what a beautiful picture of father and daughter. Small filthy minds

Jed Davis
5 years ago

I tried to leave like as many of these comments as possible. I can’t believe people would try to currupt such a beautiful thing. The nerve of some of us! It seems love cannot be shown in our society anymore without someone thinking it’s dirty. Cho!!!

Winston Gordon
5 years ago

Men kiss u daughter .and them pervert go do something with them mother.gezz kiss my everyday or the kiss me 4 of them nuff kisses

Théé Ìmage Boss
5 years ago

As a mother thats how I kiss my daughter, what’s the difference

Karen Taylor
5 years ago

When she becomes an adolescent, will he kiss her on the lips still? Will that be appropriate? Do men kiss their boys on the lips? Why not? Even if a father is not perverted. It’s not considered appropriate to kiss children on their lips in any society, theirs or others. It can also be unhealthy. A parent could also easily pass on oral herpes to his child by kissing her on the lips. Kiss your children on the cheek or forehead. Lips are for intimacy. Or do it where people can’t judge you for it. In private. Society has its… Read more »

Herbert Mclean
5 years ago

And that is why I will continue to say that Jamaica and the world in general have no respect for the few good men around. I guess it is easier for women to accept those men who prefer to be ladies. kmt.

Shanny Boo
5 years ago

I wish my dad was there for me n show affection n love….. kiss your child n embrace her,, u are a good dad… we need more good fathers in jamaica cho hell and mothers too…. u ignorant fools have too time n y’all hands….kmt

Christopher Lucas
5 years ago

I want to see who can tell me that i cant kiss my beloved Chante on her lips… my daughter makes me happy, i love her so i show it the best way i can

Ian Campbell
5 years ago

I kiss my daughter like that everyday.

Helen Brown
5 years ago

Its amazing how peoples minds react to the most innocent things in life…….

Zuzz Jacque Simpson
5 years ago

My son is 18 and still give me a kiss on my lips at times and in public.. Does that make me a pervert too? Smdh

Winsome Lark Song-bird

Great Article, excellent points, in agreement but you forgot to say SOME/ MANY parents. Honest mistake I think…lol

Maxan Gilzene
5 years ago

That is a fathers love, continue to love your daughter, I wished I had a dad to show me love when I growing up.

Anty Colder
5 years ago

It’s so funny how Italians and other European kiss daughters and grown men on the lips and nothing is said about it. I saying gangster kissing each other a there is No taboos on that at all. But a black man showing his affection to his daughter these crabs in the barrel got something to say. Maybe if more of you were kissing your daughters they wouldn’t be seaching for a father’s love from the grown ass perverts who are enticing there young girls with gifts and money, they would not be having babies at these young ages. Men love… Read more »