Cheating Women Are the Reason Men Don’t Trust Females
Last night I had an interesting discussion with a friend of mine and during our girl talk we were comparing ideologies expressed by some men that women could not be trusted in relationships because so many females cheat on their partners with them.
She claims that her man finds it rather hard to believe that women can be committed and faithful in a relationship because he has managed in the past to sleep with so many females who are supposedly in relationships.
His opinion was not far fetched. There are many men on a less intense scale that share the same notion that women cannot be trusted. They blame married women and females in common law unions who willingly offer themselves to attractive men on the grounds of experience or recreation.
But men cheat. They do it all the time and women will still date them and entertain hopes of a committed relationships. Women are of the opinion that men are far more inclined to cheat than women. Women will say all men are dogs but still have hopes of finding a good man.
A male friend expressed that a woman’s cheating is different from that of a man. He contends that it often involves some level of emotional entanglement. Women in relationships are sometimes very jealous of their “joe grind”. He states that a man will have sex with a female without possessing strong feelings for her. He asserts that this is the reason why a woman cheating on her man is far more damning than a man committing infidelity.
Is it fair for some men to think that all women are the same? To generalize every female as unfaithful is not only sexist but a fragmental perspective.
It might be easier for some men to paint all women as bad. It justifies cheating and promiscuity. Some men will say they won’t settle down because they cannot find a good woman. Some will say “they are all harlots why not treat them as such and not give them a commitment.”
There are still good girls out there as there are good men who embrace the tenets of monogamy. Maybe some of our men need to re-evaluate where they are looking and what they are searching for. Can’t keep doing the same things and expect different results.
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