What Gift Should I Get My Boyfriend Who Has Everything?
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Question:
I’ve been out on one date with a man who turns out to rich. I’m not. The issue is that we are meeting up again on Christmas Eve, and we have already discussed not exchanging presents.
He has said that a little something for a new year’s gift would be enough on New Year’s Day.
Any ideas what I can give him, on what should be our third date, would be brilliant. He seems to have everything, but I’m on a tight budget.
K, Negril
Question
A new romantic relationship during the festive season is always exciting, especially as the media sugarcoats love during this time of the year.
One thing that he hasn’t got, or at least hopefully does not have, is a wife. It is only early days for you two, so there’s no need to splash the cash on trying to impress him with an expensive gift.
If your second date is smooth sailing, the best thing to purchase for him is a scented candle and either get this personalised or give him a card that is heartfelt from you.
CITRUS SCENT TO SIZZLE
I would suggest that it is not just any scented candle, but one that has a citrus aroma to awake his sexual senses. A grapefruit or lemon candle will definitely help turn him on, and this can be burned when you two are ready to get physical next year.
You sound slightly intimidated that he is wealthy, but true love is not about possessions. I urge you to try and show him your value, even though this is not monetary, as you can offer him affection, commitment and devotion. These three aspects are currently missing from his life, even though he is comfortably off.
A personalised gift to prove your wealth will be worth more than you spending big bucks trying to impress him.
I also suggest that you find an old jar, and replace the label with a homemade one that states “With all my love and devotion for someone special”.
PERSONALISED GIFTS
Inside this add slips of paper that are personalised by you for him to give to you in exchange for “gifts” from your during 2026. These will help you build up the sexual tension with physical activities, and include places that you like in Negril, for example:
– A boat trip to Booby Cay;
– A horseback ride on Seven Mile Beach;
– A romantic visit to Blue Hole Mineral Spings;
– A rum tour to Appleton Estate;
– A sunset picnic at Rick’s Café, and
– Snorkelling at Bloody Bay.
On top of these, add some unique things on slips of paper that will reiterate your commitment to a long-term relationship, such as:
– A candlelit dinner;
– Breakfast in bed;
– Massage;
– Spa night, and;
– Stargazing at Rick’s Café;
Also try to add one miniature chocolate inside your personalised jar as well as a short poem of four lines that is all about the two of you.
This jar full of your “gifts” and a scented candle are inexpensive, but much more thoughtful than simply purchasing presents from a shop. These activities should help connect you, and show him that you have you are a fun and caring soul.
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