Men and Money: The Life of a Single Mademoiselle:
So I took some time to analyze and I have come to the conclusion that some men believe that they should not repay what they borrow from a woman.
As to why some men do this, I am yet to understand but as far as I am concerned, a man like this is just low-class, disrespectful and evokes signals being sent to the chemoreceptor trigger zone in the brain that induces an episode of vomiting.
After numerous times of saying that I will no longer lend or give my money to a man regardless of who it is, I fell for the trap once again because I know exactly what it means to be in need and I respect the fact that men have feelings and need assistance too. However, that has been taken advantage of and I am 100% sure it is the last time this will happen.
It was a Friday evening and Mr. X borrowed $YYYYY from me and promised to repay the following Monday. When Monday came, he said Thursday and when Thursday came, I was convinced this man took me for an idiot. All my calls have either gone unanswered, deliberately cut-off as soon as he realizes I am the person on the other end of the line or when he feels like answering he promises to come with it and never shows up.
I resorted to call the police and they called him, of course he lied saying, that I gave him the money and there was never a loan. I was advised by the police that it is a civil matter and I should take it to court. I so wanted to take it to court because I did not want him to feel like he could get away with this or do it to another woman but I realized the time and energy I would use was not going to be worth it.
It has been four (4) weeks now and for my own sanity, I have decided to forget it and leave this man in the hands of God.
Ladies, be careful!
No longer are some of our men willing to take up their role of provider and protector but they are seeking to rob us and take advantage of us. It is hard to let the good suffer for the bad but we must have our guards up, be careful of the persons you entertain and I would recommend from experience that you don’t lend your hard earned money to any man unless he has taken you to the altar. Any man that has financial problems must be encouraged to get it together or go ask his mother, father, a family member or male friend to help him. If he is not working, your only assistance should be to help him find a job.
When I thought about it, none of my female friends have ever done me such an injustice, as a matter of fact those who never requested a loan, they never did despite the difficulties they faced.
So, I’ve put it behind me and I will try my best no to let this happen to me again and I trust you will do the same if you have had the same kind of experience(s).
This is dedicated to the one man who crossed my path and never borrowed a dollar from me, he always sought to provide for me and protect me, cheers to you…. and to all those who borrowed and never repaid may God have mercy on you.
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