How Do I Dress To Impress For A Date?
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Question:
I had a strange experience recently. A very sexy single lady approached me in a trendy bar and admired my new figure-hugging shirt. We chatted and to my surprise she initiated going on a date with me on Christmas Eve.
I obviously can’t wear the same shirt on our date. I’m thinking of buying one in a different colour to garner the same sort of attention from her.
I don’t mind admitting that I feel that I’m punching above my weight, but what should I wear for our first date at the same bar?
D, Kingston
Love Doctor’s Answer:
Congratulations on the purchase of your new attire, which certainly did the trick by attracting female attention.
She would have also found you irresistible. Although your new shirt helped to lure this lady towards you to open the all-important channels of communication.
As you are happy to invest in the same cut, but in a different colour, then my advice is to actually buy two more shirts if that fits within your budget. It sounds as though this is a high-end designer shirt, because you mentioned that it is figure hugging. I would imagine that this is probably Dolce & Gabbana or something similar.
Maybe it had a prominent designer label that alerted her to thinking that you are a man of good taste, or she may believe you are wealthy. I sincerely hope that you are rich as well as enjoying life.
My advice would be to invest in a blue shirt and pink shirt. Blue is the colour of trust, so it is ideal for a first date. Blue denim jeans are popular for a plethora of reasons, which include practicality as offering the ability to ascertain the feeling of trust.
WOO WITH UNDERSTATED ELEGANT
Yet I would not suggest that you sport a pair of jeans for this first rendezvous. I urge you to take it up a notch formality-wise rather than veer towards casual. It’s ideal to wear an understated outfit and avoid too much of any in-yer-face bling for your date.
Your shirt’s style obviously suits you, so stick to this but grab yourself a light blue version. You can always opt for a linen suit for a smart casual look.
Do ensure that you remove your jacket after she arrives. This will mean that this lady can admire you in a shirt with the same cut as the one that helped to initially attract her to you.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT ACCESSORIES
Ideally you can complete your outfit with a big watch and only a bit of bling. Large watches frequently garner attention from ladies on a date.
Avoid trainers like the plague, instead opt for smart shoes. It’s worth reading my dress for success Dear Love Doctor response to get an idea of how to ideally look for this important date.
I suggest you also check out my advice on how to easily secure a second date, because it sounds as though you are smitten by this bold lady.
CREATE AN ATTRACTIVE AURA
Should you successfully be able to secure second date, you can sport the pink shirt I suggest buying. Women like a man to wear pink, which is obviously associated with romance.
Any man who can pull off wearing pink for a date will be deemed confident, easy going and in touch with his feminine side by being gentle and tender. Most importantly, the colour helps to ooze charm, and of course pink will make you more memorable to this lady.
Obviously clothes are just a reflection of your character and personality, so you need to ensure that you utilise your flirting and listening skills to build up a rapport if you want to build up a meaningful and solid romantic relationship.
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