Valentine’s Day Tips From A Love Doctor
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How to impress and influence the intense emotions on 14 February
That fluttering feeling on the most romantic of the day, when the brain releases adrenaline, can easily be achieved when you connect and flirt with your special someone.
Rewarding your crush helps to elevate a relationship, with the ultimate goal to be madly in love.
Here’s some Valentine’s Day tips from Brighton and Hove-based Love Doctor Monti, a relationship columnist in Jamaica and author of Journey To Find The Perfect Partner Forever.
His words of wisdom have offered guidance and poignancy for thousands, ranging from the Cayman Islands in one direction to Japan in the other.
If you have a secret crush, or there’s already someone special in your life, there are numerous ways to express your love on 14 February.
The Love Doctor explained that to make anyone’s Valentine’s Day date as close to perfection as possible: “Eye gazing, listening, nodding, smiling as well as dressing for the occasion goes a long way to making someone feel extra special.”
Apart from sending a gift or having a drink or going out for a romantic meal, whether homemade or at a restaurant, here’s some Love Doctor Valentine’s Day tips to help build a natural strong bonding through simplistic actions with genuinely caring behaviour.
MOVIE TIME
If you fancy a cosy evening in then ensure there’s food that will ignite the sensual senses of smell. Freshly cooked donuts and popcorn as well as citrus-scented candles will heighten the sexual senses to ignite fire into your hearts.
Start with some aphrodisiac foods to trigger dopamine and serotonin, such as dark chocolate, liquorice and oysters. Drinking red wine or stout will help enhance your mojo.
A romantic gesture is to order a movie, whether on one of the TV platforms or on DVD. If you are buying the film then order two, to give your love interest a copy.
Should you be apart on Valentine’s Day, then you can always watch the same movie at the same time. Although it is imperative to send sweet messages during this to engage.
Opt for a classic romance like Gone With The Wind or Roman Holiday, or rom-coms like Isn’t It Romantic, Love Actually and Some Like It Hot.
RED ROSE
To express your amorousness to someone that you are trying to gently persuade to become romantically involved is easy on 14 February.
There are websites for you to order an anonymous card, email or text message to wing their way towards that unsuspecting special someone or surprise your other half.
If you feel courageous then physically give your love interest a red rose and card at their home or workplace on Valentine’s Day.
A red rose signifies love, passion and romance. This was the flower of choice for Venus, the Greek goddess of love.
Sending a card and rose to a workplace should result in their colleagues encouraging your crush to contact you.
The Love Doctor advises to only include a large and confident kiss inside the card, as it’s considered to be unlucky to sign a Valentine’s Day card.
However, it’s best to spray some of your favourite scent on the envelope, and on the back of the card include your phone number.
More traditional individuals can send a cardless bouquet of roses, because this mysterious approach garners more interest than a piece of carefully prepared prose.
The perfect note to add, to keep a potential romantic liaison intrigued is to scribe: “Roses are red, carnations are white, do you fancy a virtual date this Saturday night?” Then make contact after lunchtime to try and arrange a romantic rendezvous.
SENDING GIFTS
If hugs are impossible in person, consider sending virtual gifts to initially disguise that you are the sender.
Should you are already with someone then you can order something online and send to their home or workplace. Pick a gift that they will regularly use and therefore constantly remind them of you, such as a card case, keyring, phone case or purse/wallet.
If the person is only admired from afar, you can make an impression with a playful gift that you order online and send to your love interest.
Pick out a scent and ensure that you request an unsigned message of ‘Love Is In The Air’ rather than a receipt in the surprise parcel.
A more audacious approach is to order a photo frame that arrives a day or two before 14 February. On Valentine’s Day you send a photo via your mobile phone with a message that suggests this image is slipped into the new frame.
VIDEO DATE
If for some reason you and your crush cannot be together, you can be amazingly romantic by sending an invite for the two of you to go on a virtual trip or tour.
This is simple to set up. You can arrange a YouTube link to be sent for both of you to experience the rendezvous simultaneously. Don’t forget that you can chat during the video and pause it if necessary.
For a more mysterious romantic gesture you can arrange for a bottle of their favourite tipple to be delivered on Valentine’s Day to their home or workplace.
There are a plethora of video apps to choose from, so you can always make contact via WhatsApp or a similar app to surprise your blind date.
Your love interest is highly likely to appreciate your thoughtfulness and potentially loosened up with a drink or two by the time you phone.
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