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What I Need Most From a Woman

When I meet a woman and I look at her I search her eyes and body for something I just won’t see.

No matter how beautiful she appears or how educated she sounds, I still search.

I love a woman who is intellectually stimulating and has a killer sense of humour yet I still search for that one thing that I can’t do without.

Yes, I’d love for her to be earning so I can help her advertise to the world her fierce independence and ambition.

  

Yet that, in itself, doesn’t measure up to my only expectation and that is not up for compromise.

There are no two ways about it and there’s no relationship with me without it.

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Image via jadeafrican.com

I may set my standards a bit high but this one thing can easily be hurdled and so it is an open and shut case.

So ladies, I know this may be a bit harsh and rigid but I have to have a woman who executes this one thing well.

I’ve learnt to demand this from any woman, no matter how cultured, refined and lovely she sells herself when courting.

I won’t wait like Christians profess because I won’t wait until I’m married to experience this.

Call me all the names you want, use all the adjectives that play on your lips because this “puss inna bag” is not my style.

  

I HAVE TO TASTE IT! The ladies in my family will never deprive a man of such desires and starve him endlessly, no matter how they are judged for it.

I’ve grown accustomed to the security of it and therefore that’s the first thing I want of her…..and that’s to know if she CAN COOK! 

Oakley PurpleHeart Lyle – @PurpleHeart

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Oakley Lyle

Oakley Lyle is an author and poet - Visit his Facebook Page HERE